I was able to think about this message when I read it from the internet. I have realized that whenever I am alone, especially when I've missed my parents and my sister so much. I asked my self, what about my parents they also missed me? Are there people who wanted my presence, my smile and my companion?
All of this make my loneliness occur. I remember when I was in grade 4, I was scolded by my mother of cutting her documents in the table. And you now what? I leave in the house and went to my grandparents house of whom I can expressed by heartaches. They are the only person who can put me at ease. I stayed them for almost a month.
But I didn't noticed that my parents always asked my grandparents if I am OK, if I am felling well and there was a single word that I've heard that they missed me so much. From then on, I got home and make sorry for them for what I have done wrong
Through this experiences, I was able to reflect that even though I am only thinking of my self sitting at the one corner of the house, there are many people who loved me as I am, who dream of my single smile and those people who cherished my presence as a human.

One thing that I want to share to you is that our life is worthwhile whenever we are lonely, make every second of our life worthy because God created us for a purpose and think the people around you who are thinking of you.

God Bless Lonely Gazers....

Good Day!!

"Friendship is a lot like a food. We need it to survive."

When I was surfing in the net last night, I was able to clicked on the article about the dangerous of the loneliness. It talks about social relationships with other people.
According to the study of some psychologists, they find that human beings have fundamental need for inclusion in group life and for close relationships. We are truly social animals. Infact when our need for social relationships is not meet, we fall apart mentally and physically.There are effects on the brain and on the body. Some effects work subtly, through the exposure of multiple body systems to excess amounts of stress hormones. Yet the effects are distinct enough to be measured over time, so that unmet social needs take a serious toll on health, eroding our arteries, creating high blood pressure, and even undermining learning and memory.
After I read the article, I was able to reflect because sometimes I am one of the lonely individual, therefore I realized that I need to be with other people for preventing that effects that can cause mental and physical illness. Even though everytime we need to be alone but see to it that we are not the only person in this world. We are socially needing someone to exist in this world.

Lonely Gazers...Meet someone that can fill out your loneliness. God Bless You All..

Good Day

The Lonely Soul
Anto Thermadam


The lonely soul wanders
Alone in the walks of life
No other soul as his companion
The lonely soul wanders

Alone in the daybreak
He does his duties
In the walks of life
The lonely soul wanders

Alone in the life
He meets many other souls
Who comes to be
Unfit for the lonely soul
The lonely soul wanders

As the days pass by
The lonely soul became
More lonely, with no other
souls as his companion
The lonely soul wanders

Alone in the walks of life
The lonely soul decides
Not to die, but to face
Life in all its hardships
The lonely soul wanders

---) Just like the soul, lonely man wanders why this life is full of mystery. Why is it that he is unfit of all kind of people? Why is it that all over again he meets many people but he even felt comfortable with them? And why is it that he walks in this life all alone? All the answer is within him.


But as he journey this life, his lonely heart feels more pain and so much loneliness. Whatever it is he believes not to die for this reason although this is his defense mechanism to fight against all the hardships in life as he wanders all over again. And even though he is lonely he can still make things better with courage and the will of God.


Make Things easier..Lonely Gazers!!!God Bless you all.