Good Day!!

To all my Lonely Gazers, I have good news for you. It can help you to cope up your loneliness as you continue dealing with your emotions just what I did for the past days of being lonely everytime I encounter problems and everytime I missed my family. First, I learn to imagine having someone there. Someone who can rescue me from being lonely in romanticized my knight in shining armor or having a perfect lover or friend. In general, I just want someone there to share my thoughts and feelings with care. Therefore, we need someone special, fantasizing in an attempt to fill the void of our loneliness. Second, I learned to cry, I am now considering my tears in expressing my pain because my loneliness would also be accompanied with tears. This time I cannot consider of doing things such as staring with the corner of my room.

Whenever I am lonely, my loneliness was always associated with inactivity. I am just lying in bed, sit and I am feel that I am very obsess of trying to make sense of my loneliness. I lost my self, having no direction or purpose in life I am now very confused of what I have done. Because of this thirdly, I learn to fight against of being inactive. I am now starting making things to become more active in dealing with this loneliness because as one of the lonely individual, I spend my time of trying to make sense of the reality and doing this requires me to become inactive individual. Lastly, I am now trying to be close to God. Asking for His guidance, love, blessings and help on overcoming this loneliness within me. I am also praying for someone who can share with me as I struggle my pains and praying for miracles to come.

That’s all I can share with you my Lonely Gazers...I hope that you will be guided accordingly with my realizations of loneliness...Just think that all things in this world are just something that God created to satisfy our self. For those who are in love, each one of us has a right to love but think of it that making love of someone or something can cause loneliness.

God Bless You All..Lonely Gazers!!!

Good Day!!

" Every human being's existence is a lonely existence." Think and reflect every day of your life and then try to truly understand what it is behind you, to experienced all the things you have experienced, to understand your joys and happiness, your pains and sorrows. Surely there are possibilities that we can talk to other people about how we feel, we can draw pictures, we can play music but all this attempt to communicate ultimately leaves something behind. We cannot always get our feelings, ideas or experiences exactly we need to accept that there is a painful reality that ultimately we are all alone. Loneliness visits every human soul even if we have different feelings, experiences and life history.
Just like me, everytime I enter my room I feel that I am in prison. Even though I came from school full of laughters with my friends and classmates but then again I directly think of my parents longing for their love and care. At the same time my loneliness visits me just like on the cold winter days or cold gloomy rainy days.
But suddenly, when I am all alone I've realized that being lonely makes me more weak, leaving the things that makes me feel better and cannot appreciate someone or something aside from my parents who love and care of me.
Therefore, for all my Lonely Gazers, whether we would like to agree or not, loneliness is such a universal phenomenon that human beings do not expect to come....


God Bless Lonely Gazers.....Try to find happiness in everything you do!!!

I was able to think about this message when I read it from the internet. I have realized that whenever I am alone, especially when I've missed my parents and my sister so much. I asked my self, what about my parents they also missed me? Are there people who wanted my presence, my smile and my companion?
All of this make my loneliness occur. I remember when I was in grade 4, I was scolded by my mother of cutting her documents in the table. And you now what? I leave in the house and went to my grandparents house of whom I can expressed by heartaches. They are the only person who can put me at ease. I stayed them for almost a month.
But I didn't noticed that my parents always asked my grandparents if I am OK, if I am felling well and there was a single word that I've heard that they missed me so much. From then on, I got home and make sorry for them for what I have done wrong
Through this experiences, I was able to reflect that even though I am only thinking of my self sitting at the one corner of the house, there are many people who loved me as I am, who dream of my single smile and those people who cherished my presence as a human.

One thing that I want to share to you is that our life is worthwhile whenever we are lonely, make every second of our life worthy because God created us for a purpose and think the people around you who are thinking of you.

God Bless Lonely Gazers....

Good Day!!

"Friendship is a lot like a food. We need it to survive."

When I was surfing in the net last night, I was able to clicked on the article about the dangerous of the loneliness. It talks about social relationships with other people.
According to the study of some psychologists, they find that human beings have fundamental need for inclusion in group life and for close relationships. We are truly social animals. Infact when our need for social relationships is not meet, we fall apart mentally and physically.There are effects on the brain and on the body. Some effects work subtly, through the exposure of multiple body systems to excess amounts of stress hormones. Yet the effects are distinct enough to be measured over time, so that unmet social needs take a serious toll on health, eroding our arteries, creating high blood pressure, and even undermining learning and memory.
After I read the article, I was able to reflect because sometimes I am one of the lonely individual, therefore I realized that I need to be with other people for preventing that effects that can cause mental and physical illness. Even though everytime we need to be alone but see to it that we are not the only person in this world. We are socially needing someone to exist in this world.

Lonely Gazers...Meet someone that can fill out your loneliness. God Bless You All..

Good Day

The Lonely Soul
Anto Thermadam


The lonely soul wanders
Alone in the walks of life
No other soul as his companion
The lonely soul wanders

Alone in the daybreak
He does his duties
In the walks of life
The lonely soul wanders

Alone in the life
He meets many other souls
Who comes to be
Unfit for the lonely soul
The lonely soul wanders

As the days pass by
The lonely soul became
More lonely, with no other
souls as his companion
The lonely soul wanders

Alone in the walks of life
The lonely soul decides
Not to die, but to face
Life in all its hardships
The lonely soul wanders

---) Just like the soul, lonely man wanders why this life is full of mystery. Why is it that he is unfit of all kind of people? Why is it that all over again he meets many people but he even felt comfortable with them? And why is it that he walks in this life all alone? All the answer is within him.


But as he journey this life, his lonely heart feels more pain and so much loneliness. Whatever it is he believes not to die for this reason although this is his defense mechanism to fight against all the hardships in life as he wanders all over again. And even though he is lonely he can still make things better with courage and the will of God.


Make Things easier..Lonely Gazers!!!God Bless you all.

Good day

" Most of us in this world felt very lonely.Thus, those who loved you, cling to them and thank God."

This past few days, there were many controversies that I have heard such as committing suicide, crime,drugs and others because of being lonely longing for the love of others. They were just a person who feel in love, but unfortunately they were not be able to feel the love of others in exchange. They were rejected by their loved ones that whom they believed that person can fill their hungry.

And because of this, we who were loved by our parents,friends,God,and others we also love and care for them in exchange. We are very thankful to them especially God who created love and loved us unconditionally.

So Lonely Gazers take note that being lonely sometimes can destroy our happiness.

Stay cool and enjoy...God bless Lonely Gazers..

Hello

Lonely
Marcelo de Gracia Villa

I sit alone,
Thinking sharp thoughts
And as warmless as the glacial sun.


I sit alone like a frozen rock
Left and embedded deep in glacial sun.

=) Every man in this world is not always happy.Thinking the things that can provide their
satisfaction emotionally.
A lonely man seeks to be with himself alone sitting in one corner like a frozen rock. He felt
difficult to seek the presence of others who can't understand his feelings of being lonely.
Other people find happiness of being alone ,making things comfortable with themselves.
And as one of the lonely person , I appreciated so much of what did man can do even though
he was lonely and alone...

God Bless..Lonely Gazers.